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Daniel Lombroso on the making of Nina & Irena

It’s hard for me to fathom just how busy Daniel Lombroso has been in the last decade. The New York-based filmmaker spent four years embedded with white nationalists for his gripping feature 2020 doc debut White Noise. Prior to joining The New Yorker as a filmmaker in 2020 he made a number of films for The Atlantic; altogether he has directed five films and produced another handful. His subjects range from an examination of Brazilian butt lifts to a haunting portrait of the Mexican American border. His films are always both compelling and stylish. He knows how to tell a good story. 

Inverviewing Richard Spencer for White Noise

Since I met Lombroso at London’s Raindance Film Festival a few years ago, he has been unceasingly generous with his time. More than once he has woken early to zoom into my London classroom, conducting Q&As with budding filmmakers, before he begins his own working day.  

This autumn marked the launch of Lombroso’s first autobiographical film. In Nina & Irena, Lombroso movingly explores his own family history through the gentle grilling of his reticent grandmother Nina. A Holocaust survivor, she has never spoken about losing scores of her relatives, including her sister Irena.  Executive produced by Errol Morris, the short film is a serious contender for the upcoming Oscar nominations.

A couple of weeks ago Lombroso again joined me for an early morning zoom, to talk about Nina & Irena with my 2nd year Royal Holloway University documentary students. He spoke candidly about many things, including the launching of the film into a toxic internet in the first weeks of the Israel-Hamas war. 

This transcript of our session, which includes questions from my students, has been edited for length and clarity: 

Nina & Irena

I am always interested in filmmakers who make a few films and then come to an autobiographical subject. Can you talk us through the origins – how long you’ve been kicking around this idea that you wanted to make a film about your grandmother before – as you acknowledge in the film – it’s too late?

Daniel Lombroso: I think it’s hard to make a good personal film. It’s many people’s first inclination to make a personal film because it’s the easiest lift. But even if I wanted to make something personal in my life, I would always exclude myself from the narrative. I would make films that I was interested in, but you wouldn’t know about my connection to the material.

I spent four years embedded with white nationalists, neo-Nazis all over the US, France, Russia, Belgium, Canada.  It was all-consuming. And if you watch White Noise, you would not know that the filmmaker is Jewish. You would not know that the filmmaker is the grandson actually of two Holocaust survivors. 

And the reason I made that work is, of course, because of my family history. Because I understood the importance of paying attention to those sorts of groups and taking them seriously. But I just never felt like it would advance the story in any way  to know about me. So I excluded myself. And the same goes for a lot of my work. You’ll Be Happier is about one woman’s struggles with her body image, and ultimately her body dysmorphia. And hearing from a male filmmaker in a film like this would have taken away from the experience and made it less sensitive, ultimately. So I excluded myself from that story.  And I’ve done that many times. I made a film about the border wall called American Scar and hearing from me wouldn’t have done anything.

Daniel Lombroso, his parents and Nina

For Nina & Irena, this is the one time when I felt like it had an important narrative utility that actually advanced the plot. If you just heard from this grandmother, like any Holocaust testimony, it would be helpful, but I don’t think it would be moving in the same way.  And this film, for me, is about a few things. But one of them is about the intense bond between any grandparent and their grandchild. And the idea is that hopefully when you see me, that all of you guys could map yourselves onto me and see yourself in that relationship. So the hope is that if you see me walk in the door as the guilty grandson who doesn’t visit his grandmother enough, that some of you guys can see yourself in that. And I don’t think it’s a Jewish story – it’s supposed to be a universal one.  Anyone who has a relative who didn’t talk about their trauma or something that they went through,  it’s never too late to ask those questions of your family and your loved ones.

Can you talk us through a little bit about the approach to how you made it and how you navigated putting yourself in it?   

DL:  The film is very controlled. This is a portrait of a woman at the end of her life who lives a vibrant life.  She’s playing bridge and doing yoga and has five, six grandkids and five great grandkids.  But she’s also kind of hiding this hidden truth, this secret in the family that’s never been spoken about. So it was a chance for me to raise the cinematic bar – to do something that was a little more elevated because there’s time to think.

What I noticed right away is that my grandmother was resisting. And rather than fight it, I kind of leaned into that and realized that that is the story – that the resistance is the story. And I think a lot of filmmakers, and certainly me earlier in my career have felt like we’ve succeeded when the main subject cries – the cry is what every filmmaker looks for.  But I actually think what makes this so much more interesting is that she’s resilient and she doesn’t cry and she keeps moving and she fights with me.

I really like the difference between the black and white footage and the present day footage. What was your intention in including scenes like her trying to figure out Netflix? 

DL: I wanted to find a way to make a Holocaust film in a different way. I think at this point there are certain tropes that people expect. People expect testimony and a lot of death and train tracks and crematorium. The horrors of the Holocaust are important and should not be neglected and they’re a part of this film.

But I wanted to focus on her humor and the vibrancy of her contemporary life. I wanted to find a way to contrast the richness in the comedy of the now with the horror of the past.  And I think one tactic in that which we found in the edit was to delay the story of the Holocaust as long as possible. You only really step back in time like maybe six minutes or seven minutes in.

The other thing is that I think people feel like it’s ancient history but it’s not: it’s not a long time. I started filmmaking 15 years ago but it feels like yesterday.  So it was important for me to find archive that is pristine and almost kind of flawless.

Irena

What was it like releasing the film in the last few days?

DL: October 7th was the deadliest day for Jews since the Holocaust. And since then we’ve seen just a horrible response for Palestinians in Gaza. My grandmother has nothing to do with Israel. She’s been there once. You hope that people watch the film and listen to her message. Her message is one of humanism that every life matters and every death is a tragedy. 

We’ve seen what social media looks like the past month and it’s disgusting, to put it frankly. The people who watch the film with an open mind I think are very moved by it.  I’ve gotten so many notes from Arab and Palestinian friends.

But a lot of people who don’t watch the film or watch it superficially have just been disgusting. For people who believe antisemitism doesn’t exist I would encourage you to look at the trailer for the film on The New Yorker’s Instagram page and see the hundreds of people who claim that the Israeli government manufactured my grandmother and wheeled her out as a way to manufacture consent for their war. Which is like the most ridiculous thing in the world. Her message in the film is if we lose our humanity we lose everything.  Hopefully people can channel Nina a little bit and be warm and open-minded and love everyone and hold space for everyone.

Victoria Mapplebeck on her new smartphone short The Waiting Room, an intimate account of her breast cancer journey

Filmmaker and single mum Victoria Mapplebeck was nearing completion of her BAFTA-winning film Missed Call, when a routine mammogram revealed she had breast cancer. Naturally, she began filming, using her smartphone to chronicle life after the diagnosis, as she undergoes chemo and months of uncertainty, living alongside her teenage son Jim. Her short film The Waiting Room has just launched on the Guardian website. A VR project with the same title will premier in the autumn. Together they lay bare the reality of living through a cancer diagnosis and treatment in sometimes shockingly intimate detail.

My interview with Victoria has been condensed for length and clarity. 

Carol Nahra: How did you have the wherewhithal to start filming so early on in your diagnosis?

Victoria Mapplebeck: It helped that I had done two smartphone shorts (Missed Call, and its predecessor 160 Characters). I had been filming with Missed Call relatively recently, so I was in the  habit of continually filming with my iPhone X; I would have found it a much bigger leap if I hadn’t made a film for a few years. I think I also knew from Missed Call that there’s something about scrutinizing the hell out of difficult stuff that I find helps. It maybe doesn’t help everybody but it helps me. It’s almost like it brings emotional dramas into closeup and puts it at a distance at the same time. 

CN: You seemed to cope well with difficult news.  Is one part of your mind always being the director even when a doctor is telling you it has spread to your lymph nodes? 

VM: Yes, I remember coming out of that session with my oncologist and it being difficult to hear – because when it becomes lymph positive it means you are in the firing line for chemo, particularly since mine was a grade III. I knew as he was telling me this. I was hearing this at one level – in the VR piece you can hear my anxiety. So you have almost this dual experience – feeling it as a patient as he is telling me, but also knowing that it is film gold in the language he is using. This is a classic filmmaker moment: feeling the  personal and very real impact of a cancer diagnosis , but also knowing that the  way it has been delivered to you, will make for a really strong sequence. I remember coming out from that  appointment and realising that I couldn’t find the audio recording. I had done it on one of those voice memo apps and it wasn’t showing up. And it was one of those things where it had gone into the cloud and had taken a while to show in the phone app. And I sat in the waiting room weeping because I thought I had lost the audio. Rather than weeping because, bloody hell, it was bad news and I was going to have to do chemo (laughing). You know you are a filmmaker when you’re more upset by losing the material than hearing that you have to do chemo!

Jim, in a still from The Waiting Room

CN: You looked very alone. You talk to people on the phone but we don’t see anyone other than your son Jim. Were you as alone as you appear to be?

VM: I decided I was going to do all of the consultations on my own. My mum and friends would happily have come with me. But I think it’s quite hard to have somebody there with you. Having support from friends and family can really help at times but dealing with their worries and emotions can also add to the stress of the experience. And the funny thing was – it sounds sentimental to say the camera was a companion – but the distraction of filming seemed to help. If I had people with me I don’t think I would have filmed as much.

I sat in the waiting room weeping because I thought I had lost the audio…You know you are a filmmaker when you’re more upset by losing the material than hearing that you have to do chemotherapy.

Victoria Mapplebeck

I remember people saying ‘oh you’re so brave to film it’. But I knew if I was really low, I didn’t have the energy to film and I would feel worse. I think people are also often surprised by how much a gallows sense of humour helps you get through some of the toughest parts of treatment. I remember the first day – because I really did suffer with the sickness. It’s like dealing with your worst hangover times 100. You sort of feel it coming on and then I was vomiting for hours. I texted my closest friend Glen – who you hear in the film on various voicemails – he was really supportive throughout. I texted him ‘oh it’s started, I’ve started vomiting’ . He texted back,  ‘are you filming it?’ and I said ‘yes of course!’

The VR rig

CN: Can you describe your different ambitions for the film vs the VR project?

VM: The film is much more about the fallout of cancer in the domestic space in terms of myself and Jim and family life. Particularly the kind of impact it had in terms of my relationship with Jim and what it must have been like as a young person dealing with that. The VR piece touches on that a bit – I use the audio conversations with Jim for that as well – but the VR piece is a lot more about cancer in the clinical setting. The conversation with the consultants feature more. I use the medical imaging in both films but I don’t think they work anything like as powerfully in 2D as 3D. 

CN: What’s it like seeing yourself having a mammogram? 

VM: I did actually go with the shot which gave me slightly more privacy because it was one from behind! Trust me there was one that just left nothing to be imagined. I think I thought to myself you know, pretty much all women are having these post 50. Everybody complains about them and hates them. Menopause is affecting 50% of the population and yet we don’t feel able to talk about it. And that’s something that hits breast cancer women. If they’re not menopausal – which I wasn’t – you get this chemically induced menopause which is much more severe. If I make a longer version of the film I think I definitely want to include the challenges women living with breast cancer  face once they’ve completed their first stage of treatment and attempt to get back to normal. Health-wise you never are really what you were before you were diagnosed. And I think there’s an expectation that you will be, and that you will just go through all these big treatments and get through it and then everything will be as it was. And it isn’t really like that, life is never quite as it was before. Breast cancer hugely changes your identity, but I don’t want to be completely defined by it. Scrutinising my experience of cancer  in such forensic detail has been liberating in some ways but I’m now ready to move on to new challenges.  I don’t feel like a ‘cancer survivor’ or a ‘warrior’  or very brave … I’m just very glad to be on the other side of it when so many people don’t make it that far. We will all encounter illness and death at some point in our lives, and yet we struggle to find the language to deal with it. My film begins with a very personal journey but as cancer affects one in two of us over the course of a lifetime, I really hope that it might be useful for anyone whose lives have been touched by cancer.

Victoria and son Jim after winning the BAFTA , Best Short Form Programme, May 2019

Victoria is now in remission. The Waiting Room VR project has been commissioned as part of the Virtual Realities – Immersive Documentary Encounters EPSRC funded research project. You can watch The Waiting Room film on the Guardian website here.